Posted by: nbaground on: January 25, 2010
Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I frequently get questions regarding how to attract women, or the direction to go in order to attract women.
A common concern that men have is ways to avoid making those critical errors on the first date that stops ever enjoying a second date or developing a sexual relationship (instead of a friendship).
I'll discuss some of them in this article.
Well, there are several mistakes a man can make. Allow me to summarize the most common ones here. The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Speaking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.
2) Not asking questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing too much on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not using subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not establishing sexual flow or interest.
6) Not creating future. (A relationship depends upon future.)
The first mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk all about themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he's got this car, and he's got this job and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that attempting to impress the girl that he is a good catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that is not going to be able to take care of her at all, because he isn't interested in her and does not listen to what she has to say. Not a good relationship prospect.
One other way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they should be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it fails that way. You have to be enthusiastic about the girl, not interesting to get her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It is hilarious! They're both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be considering the other.
If you do not know what I am discussing, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is interested in you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she is, and so on, and all kinds of other interesting factors.
Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships incidentally. Girls will be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls like to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are sort of like children to them. An origin of non-sexual amusement and pleasure.
That's all we have room to talk about here, but you will get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.
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