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You were a challenge for her. You had a high significance and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I'm going to make a wild guess here, but is it that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that at this time, you're zero challenge for her? And that she knows if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and twisted around her finger just by saying the word?

I'm going to be crude here, but as you know, to become a challenge again you need to show to your ex lover that her sexuality has no control over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think about exactly what it's like when you keep doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other options.

Your lady won't respect you again until you refuse her dominance over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not directly communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

Make sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Don't be "friends" with her, as that rewards her with the continued validation of power over you while giving her a convenient excuse to stay split up. (She reasons that she's letting you down easy doing this, assuaging any guilt she may feel.)

However, make sure to keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. Most likely a lot of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She may get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want everything back.

The best answer to this is definitely "No, not yet. The reason is because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.

For the next 3 weeks, you need to fully accept -- and embrace -- the fact that you are an independent man now. Take what happened with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You've got a golden opportunity to revolutionize your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.

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